Natural hair

I am hoping that my hubby will feel that way about my locks. Right now he
just says that they look nice. When I wore a short fro he complemented me
every single day on how nice my hair looked. He corrected a neighbor when
she said that she was surprised that I cut my hair so short because men like
to run their fingers through their woman's hair. He told her that could
still so that. So I got tired of the short fro and permed my hair and I
rarely heard another complement after that from him. He has been begging me
to cut it short again. I gave up trying to explain that as a woman I missed
having hair. So I am hoping when my locks mature and grow that he will like
my hair as much as he did with the short afro. Then we both can be happy.
Carol

Hello There Natural friends,
Its hard to believe my Sisterlocks will be 9 months old on
Sunday the 24th. Im due to post some more pictures soon.
In the meanwhile, I just updated the site. This update includes
new links as well as a new page.
Be sure to refresh or reload your page when you enter the site
to get the updates.
http://welcome.to/NaturalHairJourney
Nina Foxx the author of Dippin My Spoon came to Denver in
August for a book signing. I have a page with a few pictures
and talk about her visit. Nina Foxx has Sisterlocks also.
For more information about Ninas book check out her site.
http://www.ninafoxx.com
Enjoy!!! Look for more updates real soon.
Take care,
Have a wonderful weekend!!!
Until next time
Pat.

--- In LockItUp@egroups.com, "Cozette Freeland"

by the author and Sisterlock Sister Nina Foxx. She is very nice.
I haven't read my signed copy yet but plan to as soon as I
get more time. Nina is AKA and I'm glad she has locs. She
might help change some attitudes among her sorors. She
came across very personable when she was in Denver too.

She was here in Denver too.
I have pictures and will be posting a new page on my web site
this weekend.
Stay tuned. Sorry I'm a little slow. She was here the last
weekend in August. I will let you know when I have the pictures
up.
Pat
http://welcome.to/NaturalHairJourney

Hello Friends.
I just loved Helena's post saying how her "hubby" just loves her
hair.
Helena said:
<<<< My husband loves to run his
hands over my head. Partly sensual for him. lol
WOW that took me to a different level with this natural hair
thing. I don't have a mate now .... but when I do ... Man that
just made me think. :-)
Come on GURLS ... I know you can relate to being in those
private moments and being distaracted by wondering .. what you
hair is doing. More importantly wondering WHERE?? it was ..
(for those of us who wore ADD-ON hair). LOL
What a freedom .... no place would be off limits ... shower ...
hot tub..... No worries about him running his fingers thru your
natural HAIR. NO hair tracks to bump over. No lost braids...!!
I'm liking this ..... Something to look forward to.
Things that make you go Hmmmmmm.
Thanks for that point of view. Now I NEED to get back to
work....
Pat

I just got back from having my book "Dippin' My Spoon" signed by the
author and Sisterlock Sister Nina Foxx. She is very nice. I didn't
get a chance to talk to her much because she was busy signing and
telling people about her book but I had to ask her if she was the
main character in her book. Nina said no, but should I believe that?
(LOL) Just kidding Nina! Well, the book is juicy and it has a
little about the dynamics behind freindships and why we have certain
so-called freinds along with male troubles. That is all I am going
to say so I don't give anything away. If I remember correctly there
will be a sequel. The book is available at Amazon.com or check your
local book store. (Black book store if possible)

Finally a doll like us. I love it. For a girl who does not
mind having a piece of the pie ... and going back for seconds!!
Check out this link:
http://www.bigbeautifuldolls.com/index.htm
There is an article about this company in the lastest Heart and
Soul Magazine.
Be Happy with your self!!!
Also check out this link:
http://www.plusstop.com/
I posted this off topic subject because just like WE deal with
the world and our differences in hair style choices, it's the
same situation for US who are not in what THEY think the perfect
size is.
BE free in what God made you to be. Most important wear it with
class and style!!! Make good clothing style and SIZE choices so
you look and feel your BEST.
Seriously if your weight is a health issue then YES address
it .. but don't stress out trying to be something you are not.
YOU go GURL!!!
Have a wonderful weekend,
Pat (Size 14 - 16 or maybe 18 on some days ... and Lovin' it!!!)

I ordered a hair ornament from New Bein. It arrived yesterday. I can't
figure out how to attached it to my teensy weensy skinny mostly-permed
locks.
Suggestions?
-- Sandy

In a message dated 9/18/00 9:08:50 PM Eastern Daylight Time,
diamonique@... writes:
<< This list is really growing! I see that quite a few people have joined
recently, and I just wanted to say hello and welcome!
We'd love to hear from all of you. What style are you wearing
now? Sisterlocks? Other types of natural hairstyles?
Greetings to all and God's blessings to you! :-))
I am Helena from Berlin, MD, from the part of Maryland that is closest to the
Atlantic Ocean, about 15 minutes away (depending on the traffic!) from Ocean
City, MD.
I am one of the new ones and have been enjoying reading all of the e-mails
from so many. How interesting and inspiring! It's like opening a regular
mailbox each day and out comes lots of goodies! :-))
I am growing cultivated locs which I started and am maintaining myself. I
will be completing my third month shortly. Previously I wore braids
(synthetic) for almost
two years to get my hair back in shape. Wearing braids helped tremendously.
However, I began to notice some minor breakage in different places. Out they
came! Plus, I had been considering locs awhile. I took the plunge. I have
never looked back. Prior to the two years, my hair had started breaking of
from relaxers and mild pressing. I think stress and medication had something
to do with the breakage. Anyway, my hair is long since completely natural.
My locs are forming, slowly but surely. Of course, I am still in the baby
locs stage. My hair is so much stronger and healthier with a life,beauty,
and richness all their own. I truly have my own kind of "good hair."
Naturally, I have had my detractors; but they do not matter. To those who
support me,
I say, "right on!" Any number of people have given me compliments--some to
the point
where they have asked if I would do their hair. I've politely refused. I
had to self-educate myself these last few months about my current hair
transition. I knew almost
nil before. I've done quite a bit of research. The hard work is paying off.
By the way,
I started my youngest daughter's first. She is 16. Carole was also an
inspiration.
My husband and other two daughters love my hair. My husband loves to run his
hands over my head. Partly sensual for him. lol
Well, I believe this missive is long enough for now. Let it suffice for now
to say that I am ever learning, ever researching. I am open to new ideas and
knowledge from
anyone. I am always a student.
Sincerely,
Helena
Never fear shadows. They simply mean there's light shining somewhere nearby.

In a message dated 9/21/2000 2:48:48 PM Eastern Daylight Time, jaci1j@...
writes:
<< I know someone who took it
five times, so just hang in there it's going to happen for you!!
Jackie, I have heard soo many horor stories that it's just downright scary!
Wow, five times, all I can say is people who have that much patience really
have heart! I just pray that I get it this time:)

In a message dated 9/21/00 6:44:17 PM Central Daylight Time,
LockItUp@egroups.com writes:
<< << What colors do they
come in.
The picture on the site is Black with flowers. (Lucy) I was a little
surprised that when I received my scarf it was solid black. It is OK because
I only wear it in bed.
Carol

In a message dated 9/21/00 2:12:08 PM Eastern Daylight Time,
phunley@... writes:
<< What colors do they
come in.
Pat, I know they have the Lucy in black, black w/sublte cream colored
flowers, black w/purple flowers. If you like, you can call their 800 number.
You may have to leave a message but they will call you back.
Lynda

Sandy:
I don't want to interfere with your plans for the cruise, but I would like to
pass on some information as an option; Blue World Travel, founder of Festival
at Sea, is
also giving a President's Day 3 night winter comedy cruise Feb. 16-19, 2001
that
you might also consider. The 16th fare is free, something that could make
everyone's fare cheaper. And, of course, there will be over 500 Afro
Americans on
the cruise with planned activities for those that want to participate.
Something to think about!
Jackie Jaynes

Maverick Wear. They are satin
favorite.
I'm thinking about trying the Kucy style. What colors do they
come in. I did not see this information on the web site.
Thanks
Pat

Shantrell:
Hang in there!! I've heard so many times over the years about the nightmare
of trying
to pass the Bar exam; it's got to be wicked awful! I know someone who took it
five times, so just hang in there it's going to happen for you!!
Take care!
Jackie

Thanks for the info on the scarves!!
Jackie

I sent a message earlier about this, but I guess it didn't go through or
something. The scarves are from Maverick Wear. They are satin
scarves. They come in different styles. The Lucy is my favorite. Check
out their web site at http://www.maverickwear.com.
You can order on line, by phone, and maybe by mail. There's also a page on
the site where you can check to see if any stores in your area carry the
scarves.
-- Sandy

Hi Mujadillah,
Just to let you know that I received my booklet a couple of days ago. You
did a good job!
Thanks,
Lynda

I wear the Lucy scarf also. Those people are very efficient. You will
receive it in less than a week after you order.
My consultant also recommended the Cider vinegar and distilled water. I have
not tried it yet.
Carol

<<Sandy, I think that they are about 4 inches. They reach my ears. The back
is much shorter. It is all natural and I just leave that part alone.
I got one of those Maverick scarfs. Thanks for the info. It came in the
mail yesterday,,just in time.
Hi Carol,
I hope I am responding correctly to this digest. Can you tell me what a
Maverick scarf is and how to get one too.
Nappily,
HerbalMomma

When I got up today I was thinking, OK what will my hair look like today. I
am thinking I will probably have to curl it or something. I stood before the
mirror and took off the Maverick scarf. My hair just kind of fell into
place. It is still curly so I don't have to do anything to it. I am not
doing an infomercial for the company nor do own any of their stock but, those
are nice scarfs. Like I said before I have a large head and scarves usually
slip off or give me a headache if I put them on tightly or wear one with
elastic. This one has elastic but it does not bother me at all.
I know that when I wash my hair I have to use the bands and all but what
about swimming? Part of the reason that I went natural is so I could become
more active. I was an avid swimmer years ago and want to get back to that.
Serious swimmers know that the swimming caps don't keep your hair dry. They
don't work if your head submerges the water. I know there is a dialogue on
AOL natural hair folder about exercising with natural hair but I think the
situation with the Sisterlocks and part permed hair is different. Should I
wait until my locks are more settled or actually locked before I start
swimming several times a week?
Carol

From Anesa Harris (ajohnson@...), with permission:
Hello Sistas and Brothas:
Here is the information that you have been waiting for as far as the
payments for the cruise is concerned!
Deposit: $100 per person due by October 15, 2000
Payment 2: $120 due by February 15, 2001
Payment 3: $120 due by April 15, 2001
Payment 4: $120 due by June 1, 2001
Final Payment: Remainder of your balance due by July 31, 2001
There is an information sheet and disclaimer that needs to be filled out and
sent in with your deposit. These forms will be been posted in a file in
eGroups titled "ANHA Cruise 2001". Please make sure you fill out and send
both of them in together to Shirley Satterfield, the travel agent I am
working with. For those of you who intend on bringing a minor who will not
be in the room with you, there may be some additional paperwork that you
will have to get from Shirley so if this applies to you, please ask her
about it.
All the information you need on the travel agent is on the information form,
however I will put it on here as well.
Six Plus One Travel Agency
ATTN: Shirley Satterfield
270 Ashland Avenue
Lawnside, NJ 08045
(856) 546-3273 (phone/fax)
Shirley accepts personal checks, money orders, and certified checks. Checks
should be made out to Six Plus One Travel Agency. If there is a problem with
anyone's check, there will be a $20 service charge on the check and she will
no longer accept personal checks from that individual. All questions in
reference to the cruise facility itself can be directed to Shirley. I will
also answer questions and can be e-mailed in private at .
Remember that the cruise prices given to you earlier do include taxes but DO
NOT include airfare. You can talk with Shirley about airfare because it is
available, however it may be cheaper to book it on your own.
Below is the info on the cost of the rooms, however this information will
also be found in the file posted in eGroups.
COST:
2 People to a Room:
Cat. 4B (inside cabin - no window): $479 each
Cat. 6B (outside cabin - window): $539 each
(Both of these are located on the Main Deck)
3 People to a Room:
Cat. 4B: $409 each
Cat. 6B: $449 each
4 People to a Room:
Cat. 4B: $374 each
Cat. 6B: $404 each
1 Person to a Room:
Add the price of 2 people to a room in the category that you want to stay
in. Subtract $125.00 from the total. That will give you the price for 1
person to a room.
If you have questions, please contact Anesa Harris (ajohnson@...)

In a message dated 9/19/2000 11:58:23 PM Eastern Daylight Time,
sigridw@... writes:
<< What worked for me was an almost FREE remedy
from one of Pam Ferrell's books:
Gosh I luv this listserv, thanks so much for the tip, I will let you know
how it works....
Shantrell

Sandy,
I'd love to attend one but NOT ON EGROUPS. They tried in
on ANHA and it was terrible because of the poor response
time. Maybe we can figure out how to get an IRC chat or
use another free place. We do need one though and
most weeknights are OK. Sunday evenings are pretty good
because the only place I'm going it bed because of work
the next day! (I should go to church.)

Thanks for the tip. I will hit you back when I have tried the rinse.
Khumura

I'm in Colorado and we KNOW dryness out here. I also
was the Dandruff Queen most of my life -- even 6 months
after getting Sisterlocks. One Sisterlocks consultant
said that I must get it under control and offered
NOFLAKES, a natural dandruff shampoo. It helped a
little bit. What worked for me was an almost FREE remedy
from one of Pam Ferrell's books:
3 ounces of apple cider vinegar
1 quart of distilled water
1 teaspoon of sage oil
Use weekly after shampoo as a final rinse
(do not wash/rinse out)
That's it! After using it weekly for about 3 months, the
dandruff stopped and I don't even have an itchy scalp unless
I don't shampoo for over 10 days. It has done nice things
for my locs too. My hair which is usually extremely
soft, feel a little more substantial -- they are still soft
but they are less like cotton. I hear that it does the
opposite for people with hard locs. They say that their locs
feel softer.
The sage oil seems to cut the "vinegar" smell making it very
pleasant. I've totally hooked on this rinse, ladies.
I've skipped using it a time or two and the dandruff has not
returned -- just a couple of flakes.
Try it weekky for a month or two and let me know what you
think.

My schedule is very flexible!!
Let me know!
Jackie

Hey! We haven't had any chats! Thanks for the reminder, Jackie.
Let's see if we can schedule one and see how many folks show up. A
weeknight? Weekend? What's more convenient for you ladies?
-- Sandy

Oh I have *got* to try this!
-- Sandy

Ericka,
Everything is going to be fine. All of us are here for you and cheering you
on. As for your family issue, don't sweat it,all families have drama. Your
locks couldn't have come at a better time. The transitioning process will be
a process of forgiveness, acceptance and embracing your truth and letting
go.By the time the last inch of perm comes off, your issue with your birth
mother will be resolved and healed.
Congratulations on making it over and please accept this email as your fellow
sista pulling you out of the water and walking you home to where the family
is waiting to receive a long lost kin with open arms. (BIG HUG)
KHUMURA

Well,
I finally went to visit a loctician today. In fact, I need to give ya'll
her info. to add her to the consultants list. Anyway, she was retightening
someone's hair who has mini-sisterlocks, they were nice & she had a nice
color on them. I also watched Dr. Cornwell's video & she answered my
question. The only concern I have is about my dry scalp. I usually have to
oil my scalp about 3 times a week b/c of my dandruff & itchy scalp. When I
voiced this concern, she suggested that I could use Seabreeze or Witch Hazel.
Now, I have used Seabreeze to clean my scalp, when I have braids, but as a
substitute for dry scalp, I don't think so!!! Can someone please shed some
light on this subject for me??

Hi Sandy:
PICS is not one of the things that I do well; I'll have to work on that one!!
You have
a few stages to go through; baby (pre-lock), teen (budding phase), adult
(shooting
phase), and ELDER (contracting phase)!!! At that point, CONGRATULATIONS, YOU
WILL THEN BE LOCKED!!!!
I cannot wait to EVOLVE; Khumura is indicating December!!! (;-)
Some weekend, we'll all have to make plans to have a SISTERLOCKS GOOD TIME!!
Jackie

Hey Sandy,
Here is the info for Tressie Samuels (with her permission) in
Atlanta, GA:
Tressie Samuels
"Lots of Locks"
(770)482-6448
In case you wanted to add it to her name on your list.
~Ericka

Ericka,
CONGRATS!! You are on your way and there is no looking back.
It just gets better and better. You should get some pics so
that you can record the transition.
Have fun being FREE!!

Hello Sista's!
I'm back from ATL with my half locked, half permed head! :
At first, I didn't know how to react. My first thought was, "OH MY
GOD....WHAT DID I DO"??? Then then after about three seconds, I
couldn't stop smilin! LOL LOL The dreaded three seconds were for the
permed ends still left on my head NOT the decision to get my
SL'S! I have about 4-5 in in SL's and about 5-6 in. in permed ends.
And I could just KICK myself for not cutting those ends OFF.
But....my consultant did leave the decision up to me, but advised
against cutting the ends off (right now/before I got my SL'S). She
said my hair was a nice lenght and very full and gave me tips with
what can be done with the permed ends. I'm still not feeling the
permed ends though! But, I'll just wait it out and see how my locks
develop over time. I'm not the most patient sista, so if I start
crying again...somebody please bring me back down to this place we
call earth! I can take it! LOL Thank you all for your support and
advice. These past two weeks have been heck for me and my family. I
just found out at age 35 that I was adopted and that my birth mother
is actually a person that I'd thought of as a first cousin of mine.
And we have yet to speak to each other regarding this. (her doing,
not mine) I haven't always posted alot here, but I read this board
daily and even though this board is about SL's, I felt comfortable
about talking about this here (hope you don't mind), because I really
feel as though we are all sister's in the most spiritual since of the
term. And other than my husband...I don't many places/people where I
can turn to for advice, support, and some good ole sista talk! Don't
feel sorry for me Sista's...just continue to BE THERE! I KNOW I'm
blessed! As for my Birth Mother...well....if she doesn't come
around, she can just go on wit her permed self! I'm happy to be half
way nappy! :
soon as I can get my hubby to turn off the GAME! :
Peace N' Everlasting Blessing~
Ericka (walking through the other side!)

Jackie said:
will go through different growth stages and one of them is, as you said,
your hair will act like it has a mind
of its own, and there's nothing you can do about it but wait for it to go
through the next stage!<<
I've heard this. Since I've only had my Sisterlocks for just under 2
months, I guess I'm still in my "newborn" stage. It hasn't gotten to that
"mind of its own" stage yet. Should be an interesting part of the process.
:-)
steam rolled my hair for the first time last night, and it really came out
nice!!<<
Pictures!!! We wanna see pictures! Can you upload a pic or two into the
files area of our eGroups site? I love to see pictures of well-groomed
nappy heads. <g
Thanks for the reminder, Jackie! I think we all need to be reminded when we
want our here to be "there" now. :-)
-- Sandy

In a message dated 9/19/00 2:23:09 AM Central Daylight Time,
LockItUp@egroups.com writes:
<< How short are the locks, Carol? One inch? Two?
Sandy, I think that they are about 4 inches. They reach my ears. The back
is much shorter. It is all natural and I just leave that part alone.
I got one of those Maverick scarfs. Thanks for the info. It came in the
mail yesterday,,just in time. They sent it pretty quickly (less than a week)
considering that I sent a check. You were right, it stayed on all night.
Today my scalp feels pretty itchy. I have a very dry scalp. What do you do
about the itching, wash it?
Carol

I'm in the process of compiling the list of consultants to keep in our
files at eGroups. Keep in mind that this is by no means intended to be a
complete list. I have gathered this information from posts on this email
list. I also plan to go through the other Sisterlocks list for consultant
info. When I get it complete, I'll add the all-important caveat that this
is *only* a list and *not* a recommendation.
Some of you have mentioned consultants in certain areas but didn't give
contact info. If you have any info to add or complete this list, please
send it to me. Thanks!
San Diego, CA
Sisterlocks Home Office - San Diego, CA
858-560-5116
Kim Hall (Certified)
kimhall@...
619-527-7031
Detroit, MI
Everettes Cornrows & Braiding Academy (Certified)
313-527-2884 or 1-800-CORNROW
sheila@...
Miranda Walker
Denver, CO
Paleri Mann (Certified)
877-603-9314
pmann@...
Aurora, CO
Grace
Chicago, IL
Deb Belton
HappynNappy@...
Atlanta, GA
Tressie Samuels
Miami, FL
New York, NY
Columbus, MS
Jan Jordan
662-244-7000
Memphis, TN
Blenna Williams (Certified)
901-272-0999
Rancho Cucamonga, CA
Michelle Laron (Certified)
909-484-3004
ANaturalWonder@...
Brooklyn, NY
Khumura Khumnetertauset (Certified)
khumurak@...

How short are the locks, Carol? One inch? Two?
-- Sandy

I decided to try curling my hair. I took my old 1/4 inch curling iron and
curled the relaxed ends. I am very happy with the results. It looks very
cute I think. I have my skinny squiggly locks with the ends curled under. I
did not touch the the locks that are all natural. They are in the back
mostly and are already curly. When I wore a relaxer I used to taper or shave
the back so when I started growing out of the relaxer the back grew in
totally natural. It is my favorite part. I look forward to my hair growing
and thickening and eventually cutting all of the relaxer off.
I was self conscious about all of the parts and scalp showing because I have
a very large head. I am getting used to it and really it is only the top and
a little on the left side that shows a lot of scalp. I think that I will try
the small rods next because I really want to get away from using heat on my
hair.
The thing that I love is that I did not use oil and my hair is not dull at
all. It actually has a nice sheen.
Carol

I read Tulani Kinard's book NO Lye about 2 years ago. I admired all of the
nice styles in the book including the sisterlocks . About a year or so ago I
saw Tulani Kinard on Oprah and she was almost bald. I was kind of surprised
about that. She was on the show with Iyanla Vanzant. She is also featured
on Iyanla's CD,In the Meantime.
I think that I am going to try to roll my hair because though the locks are
wavy and curly the relaxed ends are straight. It seem like something needs
to be done with them. I looked for the sponge rollers with the covering
someone mentioned. The Walmart in my area did not have them. Maybe I should
just turn the ends under because the rest of my hair doesn't really need to
be set.
Carol

In a message dated 9/17/00 8:27:33 PM Eastern Daylight Time,
diamonique@... writes:
<< I could do a commercial for black soap! I bought some in liquid form at a
festival in June. I've been using it to wash my face and shea butter as my
daily moisturizer ever since. I've thrown away all my other skin care
products. Betewen the soap and the shea butter, my skin tone is starting
to even out. I've always had blotches from squeezing the occasional
pimple. :-) The blotches used to fade away on their own, but as I got
older (I'm 47) I noticed that they aren't fading. I've tried various skin
care regimens. All worked as far as cleansing and softness, but none were
evening out my skin tone. The black soap and shea butter are handling it
all! And so much cheaper than all that other fancy stuff!
Lynda, do you use the black soap as a shampoo? I understand it's good for
that, but I've only used it on my face and body so far.
-- Sandy
No , I only use it on my face and body I have it in bar form. I saw some at
Sheilas in a little jar and she said you add water to it.
I have the shea butter too but have only used it on my feet and legs. I am
diabetic and it has really helped my dry skin problems there.
I will have to start using it as a facial moisturizer. I have used Nature's
Blessings on my face and chapped lips.
Again, thanks for the gheri curl info. I will have to order that book No Lye
and let my beautician/chemical applying/son-in-law read it too. Lynda
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Well, I had my locks put in on Saturday. I was supposed to have them done on
Friday and Sunday but due to a last minute scheduling snafu we did the whole
thing on Saturday. So, you can understand why I was not interested in my
consultant styling my hair when we were done.
I am reading all about your styling tips but I still don't know what I
should do. Each time I washed my hair while I was growing out of the relaxer
the permed ends would knot up so there was a lot of breakage. Also, the
consultant did some cutting of the ragged ends. Therefore my hair is much
shorter that I thought that it would be. I have 400 and something tiny
squiggly locks that kind of lay on my head. They are so short, tight and
squiggly that I don't know if I should try to curl them. They seem like they
might have a mind of their own and I don't know what curling would do.
It has only been a day but so far I just wear them kind of like a short wrap
style where the locks just lay on my scalp. When I came home and showed my
husband I started to explain how I could curl them and such and he said "it
looks fine just like it is, you don't need to do anything. Now, How about
that?!
I really like my locks but I am not too thrilled with all of the scalp
showing. I had to remind myself that years ago when I would get a jeri curl
it would be the same way. Parts showing all over looking like bald spots for
days. Even when getting a relaxer touch up my hair would be so straight and
thin at first that it would not curl or anything until the first wash. So, I
can deal with this and the good thing is that its natural now.
My consultant wants me to come back in 2 weeks. I am not so sure about that
because I am really looking forward to the locks thickening and the parts
going away. If she tightens in 2 weeks I think that I will still have the
tight locks with all of the parts showing. Did any of you have short locks
at first? How did you style them? Sorry for the length of this post but I
find this forum to be so helpful and motivating.
Carol

I could do a commercial for black soap! I bought some in liquid form at a
festival in June. I've been using it to wash my face and shea butter as my
daily moisturizer ever since. I've thrown away all my other skin care
products. Betewen the soap and the shea butter, my skin tone is starting
to even out. I've always had blotches from squeezing the occasional
pimple. :-) The blotches used to fade away on their own, but as I got
older (I'm 47) I noticed that they aren't fading. I've tried various skin
care regimens. All worked as far as cleansing and softness, but none were
evening out my skin tone. The black soap and shea butter are handling it
all! And so much cheaper than all that other fancy stuff!
Lynda, do you use the black soap as a shampoo? I understand it's good for
that, but I've only used it on my face and body so far.
-- Sandy

In a message dated 9/17/00 8:02:26 PM Eastern Daylight Time,
diamonique@... writes:
<< After a while, the "curly perm" began to break
off because the hair shaft was too thin. This breakage was not noticed
right away because it wowuld occur slowly, and it was hidden by the curls
and the new growth.
Undoubtedly the reason for all the damage/breakage I had in the front which
makes me somewhat unhappy with the way my sisterlocks look in that area.
After months of being totally natural but not knowing what to do with my
hair, I opted for the curl (AGAIN) thinking it would be less harmful than a
regular relaxer. It proved to be the worse decision I could have made.
Somewhere I read about Sisterlocks, searched the web, found Michelle's site,
called the Home Office, and decided to go for it sight unseen!
Wish I had known prior to going back to that chemical what I know now.
That's water under the bridge. I am on my way to ME!
Oh yeah, got my T-shirt and tote bag last week. I just love them. My hubby
has ordered me 3 more T-shirts! Guess he likes my naps afterall :)
Lynda

I found it. The info wasn't on the web. It's from Tulani Kinard's book
"No Lye".
Btw, I stopped getting the gheri curl after about a year cuz I couldn't
stand that gheri curl juice dripping all over everything. My pillowcases
were a mess, my telephone at work was horrible, and the neckline of
everything I owned looked nasty. After reading this, I now know why.
First I'll just paraphrase what came before this in the book by saying
perms and curls both work by drying the hair and scalp. That's why we've
all had to grease our scalps and constantly use some kind of moisturizers
-- a lot -- when we use chemicals on our hair.
Here's the part about the gheri curls and moisture:

our hair in the stage that it's in now, whatever that stage
may be. Each stage has its good points, it's own look and
style, its own ups and downs. Whenever I get into the "I
wish..." mode, I remember what Amanda said.<<
Sandy,
True and wise words. It is a journey. If I could wake up
with have locs like your loctician or Joanne's, I think I
would be happy for a minute. However, when I look at
mature locs on different people, I see that they are all
very different. All very beautiful and unique. It took
going through the journey to get that way.

In a message dated 9/16/00 2:36:07 PM Eastern Daylight Time,
diamonique@... writes:
<< I keep hearing that the curls from the Caruso hairsetter last a long time
-- 3 to 5 days or so depending on the curl.
Sandy,
Although I love the Caruso, personally I get a more lasting curl when I wet
set my hair using the Hair Twirlers. On Thursday morning I washed my hair,
immediately rolled it and let it dry. Last night (Saturday) I lightly oiled
my scalp with Nature's Blessings, went to bed with my satin scarf and have
received compliments all day about my beautiful curls. I don't anticipate
having to do anything to it for church in the morning.
I will try to remember to let you know exactly how long these curls last.
I know it would be all over if I spritz it, but I do let the mist and steam
from the shower have its way.
Lynda

I keep hearing that the curls from the Caruso hairsetter last a long time
-- 3 to 5 days or so depending on the curl.
My question: What about sleeping on it? In the past, no matter what kind
of curl I had in my hair (whether it's full-body waves or sho' nuff curls),
once I slept on it (with or without a scarf), the style was "greatly"
diminished. If I slept with a scarf, the curls were flattened out. If I
didn't use a scarf, the hair would go every which way.
Does Caruso hold better after sleeping?
-- Sandy

I broke down and bought the newer version at Target. If I win the one on
eBay, my daughter says she wants it.
I just tried the steamer a few minutes ago. While I didn't like the way it
did my permed hair a couple of years ago, I gotta say I LOVE what it does
for my half Sisterlocks/half permed hair!!!
I love the soft curls I got. And the frizzy permed tips are great for the
locked look, whereas it wasn't good at all when I had a perm. I hope I'm
explaining this right. Feel free to ask questions. :-)
Anyway, I used the large and X-large rollers for most of my hair, and
two smaller ones only on the sides just above my ears. My hair is short
there. Because of the large rollers I got more body than curl. It was
exactly what I wanted! The ends are sort of turned under rather than
actually curled, if that makes sense to you. The sides where I used the
small rollers are more curled, but that's perfect for that area.
I didn't have to put any rollers in the lower back because using the
Maverickwear satin scarf every night keeps that part turned under nicely
without actually using rollers.
The hairsetter worked exactly as advertised. Very easy. Very quick. From
the minute I plugged it in to the minute I took out the last roller took no
more than 30 minutes altogether. I love this thing! Can't wait till I no
longer have any permed hair and see how it works for me then.
-- Sandy
"When women vote, women win." -- Ellen R. Malcolm
EMILY's List -- http://www.emilyslist.org

I just tried the steamer a few minutes ago. While I didn't like the
way it did my permed hair a couple of years ago, I gotta say I LOVE
what it does for my half Sisterlocks/half permed hair!!!
-Sandy,
Sounds good. The MacFrugals in my area has Caruso on sale for
$14.99. When I get off work I will have to purchase one. Does is make
your locks look frizzy? My wayward hair is starting to frizz, just as
it used to do when I coiled my hair. Do any of you know why it would
do that? I wear a satin bonnet every night and yet it still frizzes.
Do you think the Caruso would capture and streamline some of the
frizz?
Theresa

Here ya go!
"Add one tablespoon of vinegar to the water and allow the unit to steam for
one complete cycle. At the end of the cleaning cycle and after letting the
unit cool, pour out any residual water from the reservoir. To remove the
water from the reservoir, first unplug the unit. When unit has cooled turn
the unit over, making sure the unit is in an area where the water can empty."
-- Sandy

Hi All:
I have noticed lately that my Caruso is not putting out as much steam as
when it was first bought (I've owned it since Nov. '99). I am now thinking
that maybe it needs a good cleaning. Sort of like how a steam iron is
periodically cleaned. But I can't find the instruction booklet that came
with my Caruso. Can someone please post the cleaning instructions here for
me?
Thanks,
Sandust

Enjoy your journey!!! We are excited with Ya!!!!
You are sooo lucky to have this group "behind" you. Nine months
ago when I took this step I had not discovered the many locked
friends out ther yet. It's hard for me to believe it's been 9
months!!
I still thank Sigrid and Paleri for their support here in
Colorado. They were the only ones at the time I had.
Look how we have grown. How many memebers do we have now?
Amazing. Spread the word ..... be Free!!!!
Pat

Hello all!
Getting ready for my trip up to Atlanta in afew hours!!!!!! My
appointment to get locked up is THIS SATURDAY!!!!!!!! And I'm only
just a LITTLE EXCITED!!!! (can't ya tell?) LOL LOL
I'll let you all know how things went on Monday and hopefully have
some pix for you Sandy.
Gotta go now and wash (WITHOUT CONDITIONER) : < ( my head and finish
packing.
~Much love and respect to you all
~Ericka (feelin' the positive vibrations~~~~~~~)
I'M SOOO DARN EXCITED YA'LL!! I'M GETTIN ON MY NERVES!!!

Hello All,
This week BET started a new season of programming.
This morning's topic on the new show "AM BET" was concerning was
there such a thing as "Good Hair .vs Bad Hair".
I sent a reply to the message board. See link below.
http://betchat1.bet.com/ubb/Forum87/HTML/000019.html
If you wish to add something please do.
Have a wonderful weekend.
Pat

I'm very interested in Sisterlocks, but I don't know enough
information about them. I've seen pictures, but I've never seen them
LIVE! Does anyone know of a consultant in the Philadelphia, PA area.

Hello All,
Check out link below. This features Michelle's daughter. Remember Michelle
is the lady who showed us the straw set during the Sisterlock Homecoming.
Lookin' good girl. Let's keep up the sharing and networking. I'm adding
this link to my web page also.
It's just like we are all sharing "family" photo's. One BIG reunion ...
all the time. I still have more pics from the reunion to post. I will work
on it this weekend.
http://hometown.aol.com/anaturalwonder/myhomepage/profile.html
Enjoy....
Love and blessings to Ya!!
Pat
web page:
welcome.to/NaturalHairJourney
Worry does not empty tomorrow of its sorrows; it empties today of its
strength.
~~Corrie Ten Boom~~
TODAY IS THE TOMMORROW.. YOU WORRIED ABOUT YESTERDAY...
Was it really worth it?

In a message dated 9/14/00 5:58:20 PM Eastern Daylight Time, khumurak@...
writes:
<< I had quite a few radical jobs in my hair during the
first year of transitioning.
Khumura,
I've had sisterlocks since May. Prior to getting locked I was experiencing
some breakage in the front due to chemicals. I started with about 2 -2 1/2
inches of new growth and about 3 inches of permed ends. I recently noticed 2
areas where the permed ends have completely broken off leaving what appears
to be perfectly formed little locks.
What might cause the permed ends to break off at the new growth after having
been locked?
Thanks,
Lynda

I have one lock that won't stay locked. It's in my kitchen, it's very
short, all virgin hair, but for some reason this teeny patch of hair isn't
nappy like the rest of my kitchen. I don't knokw why. I guess I got some
strange hair! LOL!
Anyway... this one keeps coming aloose. The other little locks back there
are doing just fine, but I've had this one redone twice; and now I just
braided the little thing and I'll have it relocked when I go back for
another retightening.
Anyone have any ideas why I might be having this problem?
-- Sandy

I will be going for 5 hours tomorrow and 5 on Sunday.<<
Congrats, Carol! Tell us more. How much natural hair
are you locking? Do you have permed hair? If so, does
your consultant plan to lock it too?
You will love your Sisterlocks -- it is the best hair
decision I've made besides no longer perming.

Tomorrow I am going for my sisterlocks! I am very excited. Did any of you
feel pain while getting your locks? The back of my head (the kitchens) are
sensitive. I noticed that it hurt quite a lot when I got test locks in that
area. That area hurts when I get braids also. The rest of my scalp is
pretty tough. At least I hope it will be. I don't want to sit through 10
hours of pain. I know that I will have to tell the consultant about the pain
but I want her to be able to do her job correctly. I am just one of those
very tender headed people.
I have been looking for Braids and Beauty. I think they publish an issue 4
times a year. I am glad to know that it is finally coming out.
I have seen Sisterlocks in Essence, Let's Talk Hair by Pamela Ferrell and No
Lye by Tulani Kunard. That is how I heard about them at first.
Carol

From Anessa Harris:
Hello Happy, Nappy Ones:
I am holding out until Monday (September 18th) before I contact the travel
agent with a headcount for the cruise. THIS IS TO GIVE EVERYONE A LITTLE
MORE TIME TO NETWORK THE CRUISE INFORMATION. Once I get the rest of the
responses from you all, I will be adding some rooms to the count and
allowing the travel agent to go ahead and reserve those spots. This means
I need your responses back by Sunday night. Send your responses to
ajohnson@....
Reminder-I mentioned before, the sooner you send in your $100 (per person)
deposit in, that will reserve your room/spot at the prices quoted. As long
as there is availability, the prices will still be granted to those who
miss the 3 week time frame that we get to turn in the deposit. If
availability is not there, the prices will change (increase).
I will post by Tuesday, September 19st, an information form that needs to
be filled out and sent in with your deposit. I will also include the
travel agents name and address. Once you send your deposit, you will be
able to contact her directly if you have to.
Thanks in advance,
Anesa Harris
ajohnson@...

Oooooo.... Please post it. I'm sure I can't get my hands on it. I've
never even heard of Braids and Beauty. Is it a magazine or a
newsletter?
--- In LockItUp@egroups.com, "khumura khumnetertauset"
<khumurak@a...

I reread my notes from the Styling and Maintenance Class at the
Homecoming. All I have is that we should avoid rollers with fiber.
You
make a good point about the time issue. I'm curious to see what
response Pat gets from Yvonne.

article on the top ten reasons to lock your hair. It
features pictures of locks on about two pages. <<
Amazing! BE is starting to embrace natural hair while Heart
& Soul is embracing perms! This month's H&S had so many
women with permed heads and perm ads (including the
disgusting Kiddie Perms/Porn) that I actually had to look
at the cover to make sure that I had the correct magazine!
I'll have to check out this month's BE.

OK I goofed....
I still need to send the questions to Yvonne in Miami concerning
the rollers. Remember several weeks ago when we gathered
questions. Sorry!!! I've got so much going on now. I will
find the message and do that today. I will ask about the Caruso
rollers.
Pat .... having a brain freeze...... br br br...

I just wanted to tell you that the Oct.BE has an article on the top
ten reasons to lock your hair. It features pictures of locks on about
two pages. One picture shows a sister with small locks similar to
Sisterlocks. The cover has the ladies from Showtime's Soul Food on it.

I just remembered another reason I threw them out. Aren't
the rollers made out of same thing as sponge rollers? Are
sponge rollers OK? I'm thinking "yes" in this case because
you don't leave them in long. It is not like you are
sleeping in them.
OK, experts....what are your opinions?
(I just bidded on a set -- not the one Sandy bidded on.)

Hello All:
For those of you who wanted to know how much the cost would be for only 1
person to a room.
Add the cost of 2 people to a room for the category you choose and subtract
$125.00 from it. That will give you the cost of 1 person to a room.
Thanks,
Anesa Harris
ajohnson@...

Dang Sandy, I threw out a NEW model. I had it so long that I figured
that it was old.

I say .. just go with the flow. Enjoy your freedom!!!!
Take Care
Pat

My locks on the ends like to curl also. They did from the
beginning. I've alway has "Cury-Q's in some places. I guess I
have a tight coil to my hair. I like the curly look on the
ends. It does not bother me. Now that my Sisterlocks are
approaching 9 months old... I notice some of the "Curly_Q's" are
gone, some look like tight coils and others still they way they
were in the very begining.
I say .. just go with the flow. Enjoy your freedom!!!!
Take Care
Pat
http://welcome.to/NaturalHairJourney
http://www.bewellnet.com/phunley/homecoming/default.htm

I wanted to thank everyone for their congrats and advice.
I just wanted to say that I love my new "do" even though it is
different than what I expected.
Is it supposed to be locked all the way down to the end?
I have gotten a lot of advice to set it on rollers but the thing is my
hair is curly already. Will setting it make it more of a structured
curl instead of the loose natural ones I have already?
My ends are fuzzy, curly and the sisterlocked section is curly too.
My consultant says I have a tight curl pattern. But my hair is longer
than what I thought as it is hanging now and it didn't before.
Again, I am confused as this all seems so contradictory to everyone
else's experience. My consultant says I should stop worrying and just
be happy that I am one of the lucky ones who don't need to roll their
hair. So i will just try and enjoy the journey. I don't want to
manipulate my hair too much, so as I said I just mist and go.

From Anesa Harris:
Hey my Nappy Brothas & Sistas:
Tomorrow I have to call the travel agent back and let her know approximately
how many rooms she needs to block out for our ANHA 2001 Cruise. Those of
you that have not responded to let me know whether or not you are
interested, please do before tomorrow. I will post the price of a room for
1 person a little later because the travel agent was not in when I called a
few minutes ago; give me a few hours to get that for you all.
I will have more information posted about the cruise by Thursday of this
week. If you have questions that you need answered, feel free to e-mail me
at ajohnson@... if you do not wish to post it to everyone. No
question is too "dumb" to ask. Knowledge is power, but only if you seek it.
IF YOU DON'T KNOW, ASK!
Thank you everyone for your cooperation with this. And, thank you Sandy for
all your help and input thus far. I have a feeling I will be thanking you a
lot more in the near future.
Anesa Harris

I found a 4th hairsetter on eBay. This is the old model. This is the one I
had and threw away cuz I hardly ever used it.
http://cgi.ebay.com/aw-cgi/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&item=434244234
The 3 urls I posted earlier are the newer model hairsetter. I'll list them
again here so anyone interested can have all for on one message:
http://cgi.ebay.com/aw-cgi/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&item=434722734
http://cgi.ebay.com/aw-cgi/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&item=434168692
http://cgi.ebay.com/aw-cgi/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&item=432391496
-- Sandy

I found 3 hairsetters up for auction on eBay. If anyone is interested, here
are the urls.
http://cgi.ebay.com/aw-cgi/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&item=434722734
http://cgi.ebay.com/aw-cgi/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&item=434168692
http://cgi.ebay.com/aw-cgi/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&item=432391496
I placed a bid on one of them. Wish me luck!
Hmmm... I think I've just let the cat out of the bag. You all now know my
weakness. eBay auctions! I've gotten some really good software deals on
eBay, and a complete Weight Watchers 123-Success kit really cheap, too.
Let's hope I can win the bid on these rollers.
I couldn't find a web site for Helen of Troy. What's the url?
-- Sandy

People told me to wait 2 to 3 weeks before washing my hair, too. After a
couple of weeks I finally asked my consultant (don't know why I didn't just
ask her in the first place). She told me I could wash it whenever I
want... I didn't have to wait. I finally washed it the first time after 3
weeks.
Just make sure you braid it and band it and follow the washing instructions
carefully.
-- Sandy

Good question, Sigrid. I know there are different models, but I don't know
anything else about it. I'll be looking forward to a response to that
question.
-- Sandy

Give it time. Your hair will continue to change and you will eventually
have the look you want.
The reaction is normal for your hair. Everyone's hair is different and has
its own mind.
To upload pictures, go to http://www.egroups.com/group/lockitup
Sign in with your email address and password
Click on "Files"
Click on the link that says "create folder". Then create a folder with
your name or something that will tell us that they are your pictures.
Then click on the folder and upload the pictures there. You'll see a link
that says "upload file".
Can't wait to see your pics!
-- Sandy

I need a new set of Carusos -- I threw my ancient
set out right after getting locs because I didn't know
that I could use them. If anyone knows of a good set
obtainable online, please let me know (it is hard to
find time to get to Walmart). Are there different
models? If so which is the preferred one?
Lately, I've been sleeping with 6-7 rubber rollers at the
very top of my head and 5 twists around the side and back.
I can't sleep ON rollers anymore. That set lasts for 3
days or so. It lasts longer when I let the daily shower
steam get in the locs. I don't have to set my locs
more than twice a week this way.
More curling tips would be appreciated, y'all. I've
practically thrown out the curling wand though cuz I'm
avoiding dry heat.

I put aloe vera on my ends as suggested? If someone will
tell me how to download pictures again I will happily put
some online this week. I just want to know, is this normal,
or do I have crazy hair?<<
CONGRATS!!!
You have normal hair, sister-girl, and it is doing what
comes natural for supercurly hair. When you wash it, it
may shrink up and after a few days without water, it
may drop and hang straighter. You can use aloe vera
if you want.
When you want to look "refined", just use some perm or
rubber rods. You can put on the perm rods 10-15 minutes
as soon as you wake up. Use a little spray bottle with
water. (I use rose water or orange blossom water from
the Middle-East ethnic grocery store.) By the time you
finish with your shower and dressing (20-30 minutes),
your hair will be curly. Finger style and go! The curl
will last for days. (Just cover your hair at night.)
You don't want to do too much manipulating (rolling
and styling) in the early stages -- just let your hair
do what comes natural as much as you can.
Eventually the locking process will cause it to swell
up (phoof up) and then condense. At that time, it will
not shrink or curl up as much when wet. You'll have
that "refined look" without rolling it up. That is when
you are truly "locked".

I just got my Sisterlocks yesterday. I am soooo excited. My
experience
though was a little bit different it seems. My hair is all natural so
after getting my sisterlocks my hair was just curly all over. I guess
this is a good thing but my ends are a bit frizzy and puffy. It looks
cute but I was interested in more of a refined, cultured look. I know
I must have patience. Today I just misted my hair and went. As soo as
the water hit it, it started to curl. Should I put aloe vera on my
ends as suggested? If someone will tell me how to download pictures
again I will happily put some online this week. I just want to know,
is this normal, or do I have crazy hair?

Hi Khumura!
I'm so glad you decided to join us! Do you now have Sisterlocks? If so,
how long have you had them?
And more importantly, do you have any pictures you could upload to the
LockItUp files on eGroups so we can see? We *love* to look at pictures!
-- Sandy

--- In LockItUp@egroups.com, "khumura khumnetertauset"
<khumurak@a...
New York.<<
Khumura,
Welcome! Did we see you at the Homecoming?

Michelle is so pretty and her homecoming photo (I think
it is a "glamor shot") does not do her justice. This is
a much better picture of her, I think.
http://hometown.aol.com/anaturalwonder/index.html
Pat,
It looks like Kim was the only person who got decent glamor
shots. You saw mine -- yech!

The following is being posted to let as many happy nappy-heads know about
an upcoming cruise!
From Anesa Harris (ajohnson@...) by permission:
"I have spoken with Mosetta (founder of A Nappy Happy Affair [ANHA]), and
here is what I have come up with for the Nappy Hair Affair Cruise
2001. Let me start by letting you all know that I worked with trying to
keep the cruise down to 4 days and something that we all could afford as
well as enjoy. I did the best I could to keep the prices affordable and I
do hope you all are as excited as I am about this event.
"I need to know how many people are interested in going and I need to know
no later than Tuesday, September 12th so that the travel agent can book the
cruise at the quoted prices. I will let the travel agent know
approximately how many rooms to block off once I get responses from
you. We will then have approximately 3 weeks to get a $100 deposit per
person to the travel agent to hold your cabin. As time passes, the prices
may increase depending on availability so a deposit will secure your spot
at the quoted prices. After Tuesday, I will have available a form posted
on the ANHA site (http://www.nappyhairaffair.com) that you will have to
print, fill out, and send to the travel agent along with your deposits. I
will also provide other information via regular e-mail postings as soon as
we book. Once you begin paying your money, you can address all questions
directly to the travel agent. Her information will be on the form that
needs to be sent to her and I will also post it with other information.
I will begin to work on an itinerary for ANHA so that we can do some things
together while we are on the cruise. I will be responsible for setting up
a mixer after dinner on our first night aboard. A "Hair Day" (check out
the ANHA site if you don't know what a "Hair Day" is) will also be a good
idea for Thursday because we will be at sea for the entire day. We can
meet on the Lido Deck and have a ball! I will be asking for input from all
of you to help me plan a little something for the rest of the days so
please put your thinking caps on!
LEAVE FROM: Miami, Florida on Monday, October 15th
ITINERARY:
Monday - Set Sail
Tuesday (8 am - 2 pm) - Key West, Florida
Wednesday (1:30 pm - 10:00 pm) - Cozamel, Mexico
Thursday - A Day at Sea
Friday - Return to Miami, Florida
COST:
2 People to a Room:
Cat. 4B (inside cabin - no window): $479 each
Cat. 6B (outside cabin - window): $539 each
(Both of these are located on the Main Deck)
3 People to a Room:
Cat. 4B: $409 each
Cat. 6B: $449 each
4 People to a Room:
Cat. 4B: $374 each
Cat. 6B: $404 each
Again, please let me know via e-mail before 9/12/00 as to your
interest. Let me know how many people you think will plan on joining you
as well.
Thanks in advance, Anesa Harris

After one fax, 4 emails, and 4 days, I just got a message from eGroups
stating that the ads have been removed. So I'm sending this message to see
if it's so.
-- Sandy
"When women vote, women win." -- Ellen R. Malcolm
EMILY's List -- http://www.emilyslist.org

Nice picture! And her hair is gorgeous.
WAAAA!!! I want my Sisterlocks to look like that!
-- Sandy (hatin' on the perm)

I've not seen any new ads when viewing the messages from the
egroups sites. There is always an ad at the top of the
screen. Do you think the ads were only added to the
individual emails?

Check this out!!
Here's Michelle's homecoming photo. She's the lady who showed
Kim, Fatima and I how to do the straw set.
Check out the link below:
http://hometown.aol.com/anaturalwonder/PHOTOPAGE.html
THis is the link to her main
page.

Just testing to see of the ads are gone yet.
-- Sandy

I think this is a good idea with the LONG caveat. You might
want to avoid the word "recommendation" all together.
Frankly, I think this list should be provided on the web by
the Sisterlocks Home Office. It can be a simple text file
that they update regularly. It would avoid a lot of long
distance calls. It doesn't even need HTML tags!
Name City State Phone# Type Notes
Type: Consultant, Certified, R-Certificatin, Training
Associate Master Trainer
Notes: cosmetologist, specialization, # of years
as a consultant, etc.
OK, I'll stop complaining. I know Joanne is becoming
internet knowledgeable -- albeit very very slowly.

The following message went out to all eGroups list-owners. If you notice a
lag in eGroups email this evening, here's the reason why.

Sandy,
Good idea...but be sure to say something in the document that it
is a reccommendation only. It is the customer's responsiblity
to check with the home office concerning the status of the
individual. This does not mean ceritified vs not... but whether
or not they are still in good standing. Their are previous
consultants out their who are doing Sisterlocks but have had
issues with the home office. I know the gruop is a open forum
but we still have to be aware of what is going on.
This of course would go for me also once I start taking clients.
In other words ...CYA....
Take care
Pat

I was thinking that it might be a good idea to pull together all of the
consultant info that we have so far (names, locations, email addresses
and/or phone numbers) and put them in a text file in the LockItUp site on
eGroups so people can refer to it.
Pulling the info together will be a job at first; but once I've got the
initial start, updating the info would be easy.
Whaddy think of this idea?
-- Sandy

There is a lady who was in my training class this pass July at
the homecoming. If you would like her information, let me know
Pat Hunley
http://welcome.to/NaturalHairJourney

This maybe a funny question..
Is there a certified Sisterlocks technitian in the State of
Washington (western)? Preferably Seattle.
Stephanie

In a message dated 9/6/00 5:28:08 AM Central Daylight Time,
LockItUp@egroups.com writes:
<<
Why are you thinking about doing that anyway?
I am not thinking about doing that(twisting my hair). I was just wondering
if it is maintained the same way after all of the hair is locked. I
remembering reading a post where someone said that sisterlocks are just like
traditional once the hair is locked so, I wondered if the maintainence is the
same. I was thinking about one day taking the retightening course. If I
have to one day stop retightening and start twisting then maybe I won't take
the course. Well now that my question has been answered I will still
consider taking that course.
Carol

Sandy,
I would still like to contribute something toward the cost. I printed out
your address before I went to Detroit and now I can't find it. Would you
please send it to me again?
Thanks,
Lynda

--
for
use the
HI,
Angel thanks for the info. I actually have several of the books you
mentioned No LYe by Tulani Kinard and Let's Talk hair by Pam
Ferrell.I'm going to look through them again.
I have question for you and the group ( I actually posted this
question on the other board also). I have what my consultant calls
short curl pattern hair-very nappy, in other words. In some ways it
is a blessing-my hair is locking pretty well only 3 months after the
sisterlocks were put in(it might have been sooner, but I messed up and
used some non-sisterlocks products that caused some slippage 1 month
into the process). However, my hair is very dry and fragile-I have
started to notice some breakage.I have learned that breakage is
common with this type of hair. Before my hair was locked I used heavy
conditioners like phytobaum, but I am concerned that I can't do this
at this point in my locking process. I use the moisture treatment
after I shampoo and nearly every day as a leave in conditioner after
I shower. I'm not sure what to do at this point; I don't want to
retard the locking process.-
Dawn

Blenna Williams is a certified sisterlock consultant. She is in Memphis TN
the number is 901-272-0999...lillieb

it is completely locked, do you still get it tightened?or
Do you start twisting like the traditonal locks get twisted?<<
Hello Carol!
Sisterlocks are maintained using the Sisterlocks patented
process. You can start twisting your locs but you will no
longer have Sisterlocks.
Why are you thinking about doing that anyway?

Most of my hair on top is relaxed. I think that all of the relaxed hair on
the sides has broken off. The back is all natural because I used to wear it
tapered or shaved when I was relaxing my hair.
I wonder, after you keep getting your hair tightened until it is completely
locked, do you still get it tightened?or Do you start twisting like the
traditonal locks get twisted?
Carol

Hello all,
I live in Jackson, Mississippi. I am looking for a loctician anywhere near
here. Memphis, New Orleans, Alabama, Louisiana or even Atlanta.
Please e-mail me if anyone knows where I can find one close by.
Thanks,
Louwlynn

Carol's message made me think about something. I've mentioned it before,
but I copied the idea from seeing Pat Hunley's site. I followed her
journey like a tracking hound dog. LOL! It was her site, more than
anything else, that helped me decide to get Sisterlocks. I'm hoping my
site can help others in the same way.
My hair is longer, but mostly permed. Pat's hair is shorter, but all
natural. Between the two sites and seeing the pictures of how our
different hair is responding to Sisterlocks, I think it can help even more
people get a better picture of how Sisterlocks might work for them.
At least I hope so anyway. I'm having fun with the site, and I guess
that's what's important.
-- Sandy

Sandy, I have been eagerly awaiting your updated pictures. I am so excited.
My hair is about the same length as yours so I can finally get some kind of
idea as to how mine will look. I am going for my locking session on the 15th!
Your pictures are really nice and show your locks well.
Carol

Sandy,
I highly recommend, Where Beauty Touches Me, Natural Hair Care and
Beauty Book. It's 7 years old, but has useful information.

I've finally gathered together a few extra pennies and am ready to purchase
a book on natural hair care.
Keeping in mind the fact that I have Sisterlocks (and already own JoAnne's
book), can anyone suggest which of the many books out there I should buy first?
-- Sandy
"When women vote, women win." -- Ellen R. Malcolm
EMILY's List -- http://www.emilyslist.org

I've uploaded new pics to my site. They take me to six weeks with my
Sisterlocks.
http://home.earthlink.net/~diamonique/sisterlocks/journey.html
-- Sandy

I know I said I'd take care of this on Saturday, but my day was SO full
that by the time I got home last night I was just too tired to worry about it.
I did it this morning, however. The instructions were to fax the info to
eGroups, which I just did. Considering the fact that today is Sunday and
this is a holiday weekend, I don't know when the "no ads" policy will kick
in. When this was done on another group that I participate in, the ads
were gone in about 15 minutes.
So we'll just wait and see. But I just wanted to let you know that I have
paid the $59.40.
-- Sandy
"When women vote, women win." -- Ellen R. Malcolm
EMILY's List -- http://www.emilyslist.org

I went to the African Arts festival here in Chicago yesterday. I have never
seen so many locked heads in one place. It seems like every other person was
locked. Sisterlocks has a booth there. My consultant was there so I was able
to show her my test locks. My test locks were used for demonstration for a
couple of minutes.
Bobby Womack was performing but we had to leave. Even so it was a nice
outing. It will be going on for the entire Labor Day weekend.
Carol

Hotep Angel,
Your post has prompted me to come out of the lurking mode where
I've been for a week or so. I met you at the Sisterlocks Homecoming
as we were leaving...remember? You showed me where to validate my
parking. I wrote down your e-mail address and then lost it. How are
you? I thoroughly enjoyed the Homecoming and all of the sisterhood
and activities surrounding it. I'm looking forward to meeting all of
you other ladies in person next year.
Enjoy the Sesame Street stage with your children (you too, Kim).
It doesn't last long. I hardly ever watch TV. I have teenagers, and
I'm constantly fussing at them to turn off the dang BET and MTV. Some
of that stuff should be X-rated. The CD's are worse. It's a constant
battle in my house to monitor what they're watching and listening to.
At least I can maintain some control in my own house. Though my kids
are great, I really miss that baby stage.
Pat,
Your websites are fantastic! Asante sana for sharing them.
Kim,
Gurl, asante sana to you, too, for turning me on to this website.
I know I'm going to enjoy being a member. I recognize many of the
names from another site. By the way, are you ready for Tuesday? Lol.
I'm not.I was up at the job today, and will probably be there for at
least an hour tomorrow.
To All of the Rest of My Sistahs,
I'm looking forward to talking to all of you via this group. I
have a suggestion that all of us might be interested in. Do you think
we might be able to organize an online chat with Dr. JoAnne Cornwell?
I had the honor of sitting at her table at the Homecoming (because my
consultant is her personal assistant in the Home Office), but because
she was so busy, I didn't get a chance to talk to her much. She
didn't stay at the table for more than five minutes at a time. She
was quite warm and gracious. Anyway, if enough of you are interested,
I'll ask my consultant to ask JoAnne. Her schedule is SO hectic, what
with her teaching schedule at San Diego State and the Sisterlocks
business, maybe we shouldn't get our hopes up. I know nothing about
setting up an online chat, but so many of you seem to be savvy enough
to handle that part of it. Is anyone else interested?
Martha

I am happy I joined this group(I followed Pat from another hair group)
I have not had a perm in my hair for over a year and I cut off the
permed ends a month ago. I have been following Sisterlocks for
awhile now, and cannot wait until I get them. I visited a consultant
last month and she put sample locks in my hair. She charges $500.00
up to 4'. After 4' she charges $100.00 per inch(ouch). My hair is
already over 5' and by the time I get the money together I'll have to
start saving again for new growth(lol). But it is well worth the
money. I have spent enough money on perms, weaves, braids, haircare
products etc. I chose my consultant because she has years of
experience, she's certified, and she's a trainer also. She was also
recommened by JoAnne Cornwell. Again, I can't wait until I get my
Sisterlocks and sharing my story with everyone.
God Bless
Ms. Jon

Hi:
Thanks for the info about Highlander and the scifi group. Highlander is
one of my favorite shows when I have a chance to watch it. I also like
Octavia Butler's books too. I have a 3 year old and 1 year old so much
of my time is spent watching Blue's Clues, Dora the Explorer, Sesame
Street, Gullah Gullah Island and Veggie Tales.
Cheers,
Angel

hair is half nappy & parts of it is still straight (probably
b/c I used to press my hair once a week) & I am just
wondering how much hair I will have to get chopped off:<<
Shantrell, I am not a consultant (disclaimer).
The only hair that gets chopped off is PERMANENTLY
relaxed hair. Hair straightened with heat does not apply.
The permed hair will be cut when you are comfortable and
your consultant feels that it can be cut safely.
maintenance. Can anyone please tell me why it costs soo
much to get this done?<<
I posted this on this site previously (message #40) and
for those who don't go to the egroups website to search
the archives, I'll post it again. Hope this gives you
a better understanding of the initial cost:
*-*-*-*-* START *-*-*-*-*
Sisterlocks comprises 3 sessions:
1. Prelocking session: Test locks are put in to determine
what locking pattern to use. There are a bunch of patterns
which are used for different hair types. I was taught 4
locking patterns when I took the retightening class but the
consultants learn a bunch more. They also do some counseling
on locs and your hair. In between you have to wait for at
least 1 week (I had to wait 2 weeks) so that you can wash
your locs and the loctician can see the effects on each
pattern. You'll be told not to use oily shampoos and
conditioners on the locs. This is the worse part of the
package because most of us want to get the locs right away
but you still have to wait. The locticians also KNOW that
you want locs because you've had more time to think. That
session is a non-refundable $25 that is included in the
quoted price (e.g. $350)
2. The Main Locking Session: The time it takes to do this
depends on the experience of the loctician and the length
of your hair. They choose a pattern based on the outcome
of #1. It took around 18 hours (2 days) for me. My sister
d